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May 11, 2008
Happy Mother's Day (For Peace)
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That's a pic of my baby doing the Asian squat, which he learned pretty much as soon as he gained neck control. And check it out, he can cook stir-fry in a wok too!

In all seriousness, I promised to myself that I would take the time to write something on Mother's Day.

It is funny to say now that I am officially a receiver of the greeting "Happy Mother's Day." Being a mama is a very new part of my identity. I don't remember what I did last year on Mother's Day, but I'm pretty sure I was still adjusting to taking care of a newborn (Baby T was about 2 months then). Plus, those early early days are a blur now.

I spent a part of today reading Yuri Kochiyama's memoir, Passing it On. What an amazing woman. I've met Yuri before and am about to interview her for an article. I love that she became an activist, and more radical and outspoken, later in life. I look forward to sitting down with this amazing activist mama.

It's appropriate that I'm reading Yuri's book today, because Mother's Day here in the U.S. originated from an anti-war mom and was originally called Mother's Day for Peace, which I didn't know about until last year. It's not something you'd glean from a greeting card, a box of chocolates or bunch of flowers. But it's good to know.

Baby T is one of the Golden Pig Year babies. He's also born into a world and times that are rough. We are at war, food and oil prices are shooting up, the economy sucks, the government's cracking down on immigrants, people are losing their homes, and more.

All the big world issues loom around and ahead of us, and at the same time I'm noting the teeny details of everyday life with a toddler. Babies/tots change and grow so fast. 

Like this week, my son discovered a hand pump (for pumping milk) that has been stored away in a dresser. He thought it was fascinating and took it apart. To my amazement, he was also able to put it back together, and he had this super big smile on his face from his accomplishment. It was amazing to someone who had no hand eye coordination a year ago be able to figure out how to put something back together. (And yes, I got teary-eyed realizing how fast my baby is growing up).

And today? He made my day by just being himself. He has this toy that has a little microphone and keyboard and sings karaoke on it. He picked up the mic early this evening right before his bedtime routine, and started singing into the mic.

"Yahyah...yayayaya! uhUHuuuuuh...mama! mamama..."

It melted my heart. I love this guy!

Posted by momo at May 11, 2008 8:35 PM


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7 Comments

aaron said:

congratulations. i didn't know you had a baby! wow!

giles said:

awesome picture.

interesting info re: mother's day. it's a trip to think he's younger than the war in iraq, than the PATRIOT act, than the department of homeland security...post-abu ghraib, post-sppointed presidency...

he may look back on it when he's older and be like "mom, how did people just let this stuff happen?"

post-hyphen magazine...

Sara Momii said:

Thanks Momo!

I miss you much. It breaks my heart too when I see myh
little guy growing up.

Such a bitter sweet...

love you,

sara

lisalee said:

now that is what i call an awesome, hip hair cut. happy mother's day!

momo said:

re: haircut -- that's his natural hairstyle! to some people's dismay, i recently gave him a haircut (his bangs were getting in his eyes, sideburns making him scratch his ears). i was a little sad too.

papa t said:

i believe a papa t took at pic of the kid. can't wait to be home!!!

melissa said:

Oh my cuteness! I love that he's doing the Asian squat. Nice. Didn't know the backstory about mother's day either. Thanks!

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