Okay, I admit it. I'm freaking out about Christmas presents. I just gave my roommate her birthday present, and her special day was back in June. So I know that if i don't put in a special effort, I'll be empty-handed at the Christmas tree. (Not to mention that I'll be in Tokyo for Christmas, and bearing no gifts in Japan is akin to blasphemy.)
Lately though, I've grown more and more resistant to buying mass-produced goods that were made by a corporation. Not only was some woman/child/brown person probably mistreated in its production, but it lacks soul and is probably chemically treated and bad for you.
So I'm compiling some gift ideas that are fun, functional, and benefit the artists, entrepeneurs, and activists in our global community.
Continue reading "Buying, the other way to vote"
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I'm not sure why, or how he got a hold of it, but some guy is selling the last standing barracks from the Manzanar Japanese Internment camp. Place your bid at eBay. The auction ends on, you guessed it, Dec. 7.
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The past several months have made a few things clear to me: 1) I really need to lower my cholesterol, 2) Reality TV is not as entertaining as a car accident, 3) I don't actually know what my rights are anymore, and 4) I don't know where to go to "get involved." The first two are self-explanatory, but for someone who has, through Hyphen magazine, publicly protested the loss of civil rights through the PATRIOT ACT, how can I not know exactly what rights were lost? For someone who calls herself an activist and has given 20 hours a week to nonprofits for the past six years, how can I not know where to turn to get organized to turn out the vote -- or whatever issue will be exercising me in the next coupla years?
Well, sometimes it takes a while both to sort out the implications of new public policies, and to see which options are really enforceable. By the time the fights have died down, public (and my) attention has turned elsewhere. And when it comes to knowing where to turn when you want to act, I found that when I turned to my very active friends, or went to my trusty internet, I ran up against a lot of blank looks and dead ends. Frankly, not a lot of people or websites have a handle on the vast and diverse landscape of community organizing. There's no single clearing house for lefty/liberal causes, and the most well known organizations tend to use their "take action" pages as a way to get you involved in ... well their organization only. So I went looking a little this week and here's what I found. Please let me know if there are better resources out there:
Continue reading "Know Your Rights, Pick Your Fights"
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Today was our first day of the Hyphen giftwrapping fundraiser at Bay Street mall in Emervyille. I'm pretty certain that we spent more than we made while shopping and eating. Oh well. If you're in the area, stop by to chat with us. Proceeds go to three great causes -- the YMCA, the Boys & Girls club, and Hyphen.
There's an Abercrombie & Fitch in this mall. It always bugs me how there are lots of Asians and blacks shopping in that store.
Continue reading "Icky Abercrombie"
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First off: I don't mean to intrude on Jennifer's day to blog. I'm a day early, but I doubt I'll have time to blog tomorrow so: Hapa Thanksgiving! (My bad, I mean Happy Turkey Day.)
It's 4:30 AM and I didn't bother with sleep after getting home just before midnight. (I was with other Hyphen staffers, getting our store-front ready at Bay Street in Emeryville, for our gift-wrapping fundraiser). I figured it'd be retarded for me to try and sleep... I still had work to do, emails to send out, packing, and I was taking care of all that up til the moment I drove myself to the airport at 3:40 AM.
So hello from Oakland Airport--again. (I'm sitting next to the check-in kiosk at my gate, and I just saw a rat running around on the floor! Yikes!) I'm headed to San Diego to spend the holiday weekend with my dad and extended Ednalino clan. I hope you all have good, long weekends with your families and/or other loved ones.
Now on to business. Last weekend I went with my good friend T to Fremont to see a Bollywood film, Veer-Zaara. In Fremont there's a theater called Naz8 that screens only South Asian films. (You can eat samosas and drink mango juice while watching your flick!) After seeing a film called Main Hoon Na at the Third I Film Festival two weekends ago, I've developed a slight fangirl obsession with actor Shahrukh Khan (he's sooo dreamy!). (Google him if you don't know who I'm talking about.) When T invited me to Fremont for another chance to see Shahrukh on the big screen, I happily opened up my Saturday afternoon for a three-hour film.
Continue reading "Hapa Thanksgiving & Dreamy Shahrukh"
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My grandma is known to start conversations out the the blue with statements like, "He decided not to. Let's go eat." You may have just gotten off the plane and arrived in her Tokyo apartment, blowsy and crusty-eyed, and you sure as hell have no idea who "he" is, what he decided about, and what that has to do with eating.
The thing is that grandma, at 94, is still thinking three thoughts ahead and forgets that you can't keep up. Her internal logic is so clear to her that elucidating the rest of us is just a bore. Keep up, people! seems to be her attitude.
I've realized that Hyphen's kind of been like that, too. We figured that if we put a daikon on the magazine's cover, you'd understand that it was a "food" issue, not full of recipes and tips, but rather, examining the origins, socio-economic and political ramifications of the work involved in creating a bowl of soup. We didn't bother explaining it anywhere, just figured it was evident. What, you didn't pick up on all that?
But as previously mentioned in this blog, we want to be more accessible, and that requires taking a few steps back to show you the ground we're standing on. In that spirit, I am providing a Hyphen FAQ. Long overdue. Fellow hyphenators, please feel free to append or amend.
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I just got back from Sin City, and I couldn’t help noticing the large numbers of Asians, Asian Americans and Asian Pacific Islanders in Las Vegas.
APIs have some gene that makes us gamble, and we go to Las Vegas by the plane load. The casinos have noticed, and many of them bring in big-name entertainers from Asia to perform. But it's not just visitors, so many of the dealers, waiters, hotel workers and bartenders in Las Vegas are Asian or Pacific Islander.
The Las Vegas metro area has one of the fastest growing Asian Pacific Islander populations in the country. The number APIs in Nevada rose from 33,000 in 1990 to 112,000 in 2000, including people that count more than one race in their background, according to the Population Resource Center. In Clark County (where Las Vegas is), the number of Asians and Pacific islanders grew from 26,000 to 79,000, an increase of more than 200 percent.
Over the last decade, so many Hawaiians have moved to Las Vegas that it is known as the Ninth Island (Hawaii has eight islands).
Now if I can just get a little bit of aloha when I’m at the craps table.
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Lots of good discussion at the Hyphen editorial retreat this weekend. Look out for a new and improved magazine in 2005. Besides planning for the next year, we also ate a lot of kalbi and shared stories of personal injuries. Adrienne fell on her face in a bathroom (and hit her head on a wall too on the way down). Stef couldn't move for 3 days after doing squats. And topping it all, Neela zipped up her eyelid once. Ouch!!!
Continue reading "Looking Pretty Damn Good"
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As if we didn't have enough meetings and retreats, today wuz the Hyphen ("hip hen" to those in the know) editorial retreat chez Todd in San Jose, which Stef really didn't know the way to. As I explained to a newbie, the Hyphen organization is actually 2 years and 9 months old, but we spent the first eight months of that essentially in one long editorial retreat. This is the first re-envisioning of our editorial scope since then. 'Bout time too.
We didn't make any radical changes, just dropped some sections we'd already long ago dropped, consolidated a couple of sections, gave more space to the creative friters and the visual fartists (yay more space!), disagreed rather less than usual (but rather more than not at all), and fixed our schedule of themes for the next three issues. No, I won't tell you what they are. Subscribe and find out!
What I Took Away With Me (*sniff*): some genius laid out all five issues in a row along one wall, a display I had somehow never seen before. I was completely taken aback at how many issues we've put out in the past year and a half (five!) and how substantial five (5!) issues all look together. When you lay out five (five!) covers in a row, an overall picture or brand image really does emerge. I've been too close to the process, and the product, to see it until now. I'm proud, I say, proud. And that's only marginally facetious.
Most importantly, we did all agree that we are targeting a broader range of readers than just Those Like Us, and that our focus needs to broaden. We need to recruit more good writers (no mean feat, since we still can't afford to pay) in more places than just San Francisco and New York. This is where you all come in. We need quirks and straight stories, fun and games, trauma and oppression, and things nobody but you knows about. Let us know who you are, let us know what you know, let us know who you know. Hyphen is a community effort. You're the community. Help us shape our magazine.
And if the spirit moves you, drop us a little cash, too!
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At a Hyphen editorial retreat earlier this month, Todd brought up the idea of an Asian American anthem. Stay tuned for his in-depth research into this field, but it really got me thinking about the South Asian music scene and how crazy it is. I was at an awesome APA queer party last night called Persuasion -- and I was dancing up a storm to a set by DJ KBug (an awesome DJ who spins world beats). It was a "dress in drag" party and my tie was flapping around as I busted my bhangra, garba and filmi movies. Tonight is Dhamaal -- the big SF Desi party, with two floors of music. This DJ collective got a Best of the Bay award from the Guardian this year and their party is always packed with a diverse crowd. And you can usually find me in the basement sweating through 4 or 5 hours of beats at this party.
I have been hounding my more musically knowledgeable friends about why South Asian music has become so popular in terms of electronic fusion. Now, somebody please correct me if I am wrong, but I don't really see the same thing happenning with Chinese or Korean or Japanese classical music. Some say it is because the free from of South Asian classical music -- similar to jazz -- makes it especially compatible with turn tables and collaboration. Others says it has to do with the commodification of South Asian culture that dates back to the 1960s with the Beatles going to India. Everyone should check out Mutiny: Asians Storm British Music, for a little history lesson in the origins of the Desi music scene. It really gives you a perspective on how long this scene has been a formidable force in music -- and it goes way back before that annoying Truth Hurts song.
I am also especially interested with the study and play of classical Indian music by young people in this country. Masters like Ravi Shankar and Ali Akbar Khan were young men back in the 1960s and there was an explosion of interest in instruments like sitar and tabla. But now there really is a new generation of Asian Americans playing this music and continuing this ancient tradition on. In fact, tonight Alam Khan -- Ali Akbar's 22-year-old son and prodigy -- will be playing one of his first solo concerts ever with tabla master Zakir Hussein. I met Alam back when he was 20 and found him fascinating. Here was a kid who grew up in San Rafael, California, listened to hip hop but has dedicated his life to the study of the sarode. I am equally as fascinated with Anoushka Shankar, Ravi Shankar's daughter.
Then there is Oliver Rajamani, who will be in San Francisco on Sunday night. Honestly, seeing this man live is absolutely mind-blowing. Identifying as Indian and Roma (or Gypsy), Rajamani is based in Austin -- so you Texans should check him out on his home turf. He is a world music extravaganza -- his set travels from Southern India up to Spain down to Africa and then over to Brazil. I know world music often gets a bad reputation for being cheesey, but this man is just pure musical genius. He just keeps singing and picking up different instruments and the audience goes nuts.
Anyway, among all these outlets, I really wonder what will happen to these forms of music a few generations down the line. Will electronic fusion become as common a genre as r&b or country? Will classical music become the hip thing to do for young South Asians? I can't wait to find out.
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The Hyphen editorial retreat is this weekend at my house. Aside from family and a few friends, it's the first public showing of our place since we moved in last August. Since summer we've been busy removing wallpaper, ugly wood paneling, acoustic ceiling, repainting the ceiling and walls, installing mirrored closet doors, vinyl windows, baseboards. We also got rid of the original '70s era master bathroom and had a guy come in and install sweet tile, a custom vanity, brand new fixtures and canned lights. We got a lot of help from my folks (who live down the street) as well as some good contractors. We're finally at a place where we can go, phew! Let's have some people over!
Housing seems like a pie in the sky thing in the overpriced Yay but my wife and I did it. We bought in 1999 when the market was just as crazy and her income was the only income we could claim (I was freelancing and we don’t make much). We scraped up enough down payment, found a loan company crazy enough to lend us money, and got into a 3bd/2ba for 312K, bidding over by a good chunk. I remember calling our realtor guy from the gym the day he presented the bid and learning we got the house. I walked into the living room and exclaimed "We're outta here!" and Betty and I jumped around in exhiliration. Then reality hit: Oh shit. Now what? Our $800 rent was going to triple to a $2400 mortgage. Yikes!
Continue reading "Buy High, Sell Higher"
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I woke up this morning and two thoughts popped into my head: "It's Daddy's birthday! I need to call him later!" and "Holy-freaking-crap! It's my turn to blog today, but I don't know what to write about."
It's not that I hate this blog; I love reading it and writing for it. It's just that I'm feeling over-Hyphen-ated. Since returning from NYC over a week ago, I've been running on empty trying to stay on top of my final projects for school, and Hyphen. A girl can only do so much when she averages a couple hours of sleep a night, and drinks Red Bull and coffee. One of my professors sent me home from class last week because I fell asleep in the middle of lecture. On Tuesday my doctor told me (though not in these words) that Hyphen has been a "bad boyfriend" for being so demanding.
It sucks that it took being sick for me to get some sleep (and a two-day respite from Hyphen) finally. Much to the chagrin of some friends and my doctor, I've still been working (in bed) on my laptop. So I'm not totally out of the loop:
Continue reading "Bad For My Health"
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My fellow Hyphen editors have probably heard me rave over the rarely mentioned international "sport" that Asians and Asian Americans are truly kicking ass at: the world of competitive eating.
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There's been a question that pops into my mind every six months or so, seemingly unanswerable: what will be the next pearl milk tea?
Boba, bubble tea, call it what you like, it's become a staple in the Asian malls of America --with relatively wide crossover appeal. It's all over East Asia (anyone know about South or Southeast Asia?) and making inroads into the red states (I've had it in Vegas). Plus, it's delicious.
So I'd like to propose a few contenders for the next Asian food craze. Feel free to borrow these ideas and make your first million!
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I know. I suck for not writing in here earlier. I'm swamped trying to put together our editorial retreat for this weekend, answering Heeb magazine's table tennis challenge. (We're on! On December 10th, the paddles will fly and we will see once and for all, who rules this sport! Details TBA), and that thing called a day job, which I need to get up in 5.5 hours for. Oh, the joys of running a volunteer-run magazine with a shoe-string budget. (Feel free to send us Starbucks coupons.)
Continue reading "Oh, the Joys"
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Inspired by an email from Joseph O. Legaspi, whose poem "First Cigarette" appeared in Hyphen #3, I thought I'd get a list started of Asian American markets, competitions and awards for creative writing. What I'm posting here is distinctly non-exhaustive (and maybe a little restive will cure that) so please feel free to post your own tips below. All Asian American all the time only, though, please.
Continue reading "Where To Get Published Asian American Style"
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So, this Hyphen blogger has been AWOL for a couple weeks due to excessive running around the country. But first, speaking of bloggers, have you all heard about this lovely hapa lady, whose tell-all blog got her into all kinds of trouble and then into all kinds of bad publicity? There is another great article about how blogging the details of your sex life does not a feminist make.
Continue reading "Happy Diwali and Ramadan"
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I swear this blog sneaks up on me every week and I sit here thinking, what the hell do I write about?
So I'll cheat and put up a link that I found extraordinary: Japanese women slapping each other.
Reminds me of Hyphen meetings. Har har.
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Now that I've returned to Hyphenland (also known as my apartment [Melissa, Hyphen 's editor, is my roommate) from NYC, I am slowly playing catch-up on emails (both personal and Hyphen-related), voicemail messages, school work (finals!), unpacking, and just life in general.
Lots of love to my friend Anhoni, who forwarded me a link to this site last week. I'm sorry too, but I'd rather get an apology from everyone who voted for Dubya.
But whatever.
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While in New York City last week, I hung out with my two best friends who I hadn't seen in months. Sunday night the three of us went to Queens for Filipino food and (after) drank Red Stripes and Irish Car Bombs at a local bar in Brooklyn.
For dinner my friends and I ordered so much food, the restaurant staff (and other patrons) seemed amused that our table was becoming so crowded with entrees; we had to move to a bigger table to accomodate all the food. It was like we hadn't eaten in years, when in fact it was just that Y and I hadn't eaten (homecooked) Filipino food in months. After dinner S requested that we walk up the street a few blocks, to the predominantly South Asian shopping strip off Roosevelt. I made the joke that for dinner Y and I got to be among "our people," and our post-dinner trek (to burn off all the calories) was to see "S's people." We called it a "Third World Connection" -- "brown Asians living side by side in harmony."
Continue reading "SpareChange.com"
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If Harry's entry about Iris Chang's suicide wasn't disturbing enough, I just found a few more disturbing links while reading the news.
Namely, that pharmacists are now refusing to dispense birth control on "moral grounds". (I read a similar blurb here a few months back, as well.) Since when is the birth control pill considered an abortion? And since when can one's personal beliefs interfere with fulfilling prescriptions and providing basic medical care? Seriously, I am so disturbed. Tell me I'm not the only one.
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Rape of Nanking author Iris Chang was found dead Tuesday from an apparent self-inflicted gunshot the head, according to the San Jose Mercury News.
Enough said.
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So it's been a week since the election, and (half) the nation is in mourning. My friends have described their crying fits, their anger, their wonder at how people can blithely continue on with their commuting and childcare and sitcoms when Frodo didn't make it --Bush got the ring and our hopes for a regime change have evaporated.
I've never heard ordinary citizens describe feelings of grief over an election before. When I heard that Kerry conceded, I felt that same sick feeling as when someone I love has died.
Of course, revolutions come only after such disappointments. Revolutions don't come just because of crushing oppression and maniacal tyranny, they come after hope is dangled out before the downtrodden masses and then is tauntingly jerked away.
What upsets me most about the election results (Besides the Bush "win") is that analysts and media want to say that this means there are "two Americas," that there is this great moral divide. I think there are a lot of things wrong with that analysis.
Continue reading "Red and Blue make Purple"
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I had the first Hyphen-free weekend in ages. But only because I had to travel for my day job. Now that I've exhausted myself running a conference for 500 people, it's back to Hyphenland, which means lots of meetings. This week is absurd. There's three.
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The woods are dark and deep, full of scary predators, and we are just bare-kneed innocents, our little shaking hands occupied protecting the precious contents of our baskets. But, as Robert Frost never intended to remind us, the woods are lovely as well, seductive as a place of thrilling terror, and no fairy tale is complete without an all-expenses paid trip through the heart of them. The dark, fanged woods are an archetype, the place we go when our fears overwhelm us and we become blinded to their shape and extent, where we go to face a monstrous enemy whose tentacles seem to reach beyond the limits of our vision. In fairy tales, we enter the woods; in movies we hide under the covers, screwing our eyes shut; in parable, we stick our heads into the sand; and in reality, we demonize the administration of George W. Bush.
Continue reading "Stopping By Woods On A Bushy Evening"
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Last night I moderated a panel on San Jose Japantown for South Bay First Thursdays, a networking organization that brings together Asian American professionals and townsfolk to discuss different topics on the, you guessed it, the first Thursday of the month. About 27 people came out to hear a conversation about the future of Japantown. We touched on topics of identity, demographic shifts, history, gentrification, arts and culture and nightlife. During the intro, I used the word "sleepy" to describe J-town and the reference was brought up again and again. San Jose's Japantown isn't like Little Tokyo in LA or SF's Japantown. It's a homey place (not sleepy!) with a feeling of community unlike the others. No chain stores except one Blockbuster; J-Town is a Starbucks-free zone and proud of it.
One of the panelists, Roy Hirabayashi, the managing director of San Jose Taiko, has been in J-Town for over 30 years. He made a good point that if redevelopment came in and overhauled the place, basically turning it into an exoticized version of Japantown, it would be a disaster. I can’t picture tour buses parked on Jackson, with out of towners hovering over the locals getting soy blocks from San Jose Tofu. The other J-Towns attract Japanese nationals, another panelist said, SJ's is just a neighborhood with a deep-rooted community, which makes it distinct. Panelist Jeff Ota, from the senior center Fuji Towers, said his father liked Japantown because he could stand on the corner of Fifth and Jackson and see the whole neighborhood.
Continue reading "J-Town Beatdown"
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As a Filipina who gets mistaken for every other (usually non-Asian) ethnicity but what I really am (you'd be amazed at the totally-off things people have come up with), I don't buy into the stereotype that all Asians look alike. As MC Serch of 3rd Bass (the Gas Face!) said back in the day, "Must've been a white guy who started all that."
A Canadian reporter contacted Melissa and I earlier this week requesting interviews regarding this website. I'd never heard of All Look Same before. Unfortunately I was too busy to answer questions; Melissa was able to oblige. I'm curious (and anxious) to read the article.
On another note, I will be in New York City from tomorrow (later this evening, rather) to Tuesday. My last trip to NYC was when Hyphen had a launch party in Tribeca, at 99 Hudson (last July). I've been itching to visit NYC ever since.
I like to joke that Hyphen is like my boyfriend, because of all the time and passion I invest into helping produce the magazine. Although NYC is (so far) the only major city Hyphen is carried in on the East Coast, our presence there doesn't (yet) seem to have the same impact as in the Bay Area. I'm anxious to meet more people and get the word out about "the man" in my life.
New York City, I want you to meet my new boyfriend!
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So I was trying to remain somewhat optimistic enough to write a we'll keep fighting type of blog entry, but I'm just not feeling it today. From a Republican-controlled White House and Congress to the future of the Supreme Court, from California propositions like the three strikes law being upheld to 11 states passing anti-gay marriage amendments, all I can say is that these are some f***ing scary times we live in, both here and in the rest of the world. Maybe tomorrow I'll be more angry than anxious, but right now I'm feeling more sick to my stomach than anything else. Feel free to comment.
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As I drove through San Francisco on my way to work this morning, I saw a line of voters that extended halfway down the block. Wow! I thought, people are really excited about this election. A few miles down, I passed another line of patient voters.
I got a little choked up. People are standing in line, reading their fat voter guides (SF residents have 30 propositions to vote on) and taking part in the wonderful horrible exercise of American democracy. (For a suprisingly stirring take, don't miss Eminem's video.)
This year, voting isn't a boring civic duty. It's a chance to take part in a great made-for-tv drama, with smut that can appeal to everyone. And that's what I think will get people to the polls.
Continue reading "Passion! Betrayal! Ketchup! Electoral Fraud!"
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One of the four finalists in ESPN's Dream Job show is Anish Shroff. The show is a competition to win a contract to be a sportscaster on the network. Online voting will determine the winner. A competitor will be voted off the show on Tuesday.
The number of Asian American males working on-air in TV news is woefully low. So vote Tuesday for your favorite presidential candidate, and then go the show's website at 9 p.m. PST to put another Asian American male on the air!
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Filmmaker & comic book writer Greg Pak has put together a new website encouraging Asian Americans in Hawaii to go to the polls for Kerry. The race is tied in Hawaii. Since Hawaii is the only state with an API majority, APIs have a real chance at swinging this state!
I don't know about you, but tomorrow I'll be sitting on the couch and biting my nails while I watch the returns. This stuff is nervewracking.
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